By Chanita Teitz
I may have been away from writing this column for a while, but my brain is on overload trying to put together all my divergent thoughts concerning the escalating situation in Israel.
This column was supposed to be a happy one where I shared our experience of being in Israel for Sukkos, extolling the beauty, spirituality, fun, and excitement of being there. What started out beautifully ended up frightening.
We arrived on Tzom Gedaliah and went directly to Bayit V’Gan, where our son and grandson were waiting for us to help schlep in our luggage. The next day, we headed to the cemetery in Sanhedria for my father-in-law’s yahrzeit and then went to the cemetery in Bet Shemesh for the levayah of our dear neighbor and friend Rebbetzin Hinda Katz.
That night we went to Mamilla to see the crowds, have a bite, and enjoy some impromptu entertainment. The tourists were starting to come to Israel and the yom tov spirit was definitely filling the air.
The next day, after Akiva returned from davening at the Kotel, we headed to the Gush Katif museum. The exhibits included pictures and videos of life in Gush Katif before and after the expulsion. And what a good life it was! Lush green lawns colorfully planted with flowers; successful businesses, including the greenhouses; beautiful homes, shuls, yeshivos and schools, parks, playgrounds, and children playing freely outdoors. All that came to a horrific and violent end.
We spent Shabbos in Bayit V’Gan, tranquil, peaceful, and quiet, the way Shabbos and life is supposed to be. We decided to go into town for Yom Kippur to daven at the Yeshurun shul and hear their chazzan. On Sunday, we made our sleeping arrangements and arranged our seats at Yeshurun. Walking down King George St., we noticed a large crowd of soldiers in front of the Great Synagogue. They were gathered there to say Selichos. We decided to join them and felt enveloped with achdus watching all these soldiers, religious and secular, reciting and singing Selichos together.
On Monday night, erev Yom Kippur, Akiva went to the Kotel to be among the 250,000+ people gathered for midnight Selichos. I went to the Great Synagogue to hear Rabbi Zechariah Wallerstein and Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi speak. The shul was packed with women, and both speakers were truly exceptional.
I took a taxi home without fear of traveling alone, and Akiva walked through the Old City to get to his car at 2 a.m. also without fear. We had no idea then what would be in store for Klal Yisrael.
Fast-forward to the first two days of Sukkos, which we spent in the Old City in a small, beautifully renovated hotel called the Sephardic House, located right at the Rova parking lot and just a short walk from the large plaza, the Churva shul, and Tifereth Yisroel Street. We davened at the Kotel, walking back and forth without incident, and on Monday night, our second night of yom tov (the first night of chol ha’moed for Israelis), we spent hours sitting in the Rova watching thousands of people streaming into the Old City. The stores and restaurants were open, there were sukkahs for people to eat in, vendors selling fresh popcorn and cotton candy, and bands playing music. The Churva had a Simchas Beis HaSho’eiva inside and set up a huge screen outside for everyone’s viewing. Music and a spirit of achdus filled the air as chassidim from Meah Shearim danced with secular tourists and national religious alike.
We davened at Aish Hatorah on our second day with other Americans and later spent the rest of the day and evening back in the Rova. Since the Old City was closed to all vehicular traffic, thousands of people kept streaming in on foot, a real “oleh regel” that continued the next day when thousands came for Birkas Kohanim. The endless waves of people filled the Kotel plaza and beyond. Again, if this is what we saw, what must it have been like in the time of the Beis HaMikdash when people were oleh regel?
This euphoria was spoiled when we heard of the murder of Na’ama and Eitam Henkin in front of their children while driving in the Shomron after a family Sukkos gathering. Hashem yerachem.
On Thursday of chol ha’moed we took a tour of Arab East Jerusalem neighborhoods with Arieh King, Jerusalem city councilman and candidate for Knesset in the last election. Arieh is outspoken about the de facto two-state solution that the Israeli government is allowing in Yerushalayim. With and without building permits, Arabs are building in areas that are forbidden to Jews, while in Jewish neighborhoods people wait years for permits to build, creating housing shortages and hiking up the prices, besides restricting Jews from living anywhere in our country.
The Arabs have beautiful, brand-new communities, new homes, beautiful shopping areas, and the freedom to travel in Israel and especially throughout Yerushalayim. While we hesitate to walk through the Arab areas alone (and on the tour we had a police escort at one point), they aren’t afraid to walk through our neighborhoods, to shop, travel, work, or attend university.
They work and have all this freedom; I thought these Arabs like their life in Israel and aren’t the ones committing the terror. Until this morning when I heard that a Bezeq employee plowed his car into people at a bus stop in Geula.
Later that afternoon we attended a beautiful yom tov celebration at city hall in the “largest sukkah in Yerushalayim” with our grandchildren. There was a concert on the plaza, clowns, balloons, and other events for the kids. The streets were mobbed with families. The light rail was filled with commuters from all over the city coming to the festivities. No stabbings yet. We were on cloud nine; was this the calm before the storm?
After Shabbos the tranquillity and peaceful beauty of yom tov was marred by the news of the stabbing at the Lion’s Gate. Akiva reacted strongly to this murder because we had just been there in the Old City for two days of yom tov, walking and watching and singing and dancing without fear. How could this happen? How could this continue to happen? We decided to attend the levayah on Sunday for Rabbi Nehemia Lavi of Ateres Kohanim, which was held at Har HaMenuchos with thousands in attendance, including Chief Rabbi Lau and government officials.
We were in Bayit V’Gan for the second days of Sukkos and davened on Simchas Torah in a minyan of French Jews who, like us, were visiting their children. Although the vernacular was different, the davening was the same, the songs were the same and the hakafos were lively. But our grandchildren didn’t understand why we had a second day of yom tov and they found it strange that we were making Kiddush while they were going shopping, talking on the phone, and taking down the sukkah. We found it strange, too, especially Akiva who found the contrast of yom tov and chol difficult. I took it more in stride, realizing that this is the way Sukkos was meant to be and the way it will be when Mashiach comes. We should try to get used to the idea of one day of yom tov.
Turning on the news after yom tov, we heard of more attacks, stonings, and stabbings. But the next day we still went walking in Geulah and rode the light rail and the buses, although the idyllic yom tov was replaced by a foreboding feeling of what was to come.
The lies that I am hearing and reading now during the violence that continues to escalate are being spewed by ill-informed, anti-Semitic reporters. The twisted reports of Jewish settlers provoking the attacks and the police killing innocent children are as disturbing as they are mind-boggling. The police are killing terrorists who are armed with knives and attempting to kill Jews, and if those terrorists are minors, that is too bad. They are still terrorists and should be stopped dead before they can continue to kill more.
What can we do? We can daven and say Tehillim, do teshuvah and pray that Hashem give wisdom to the government officials to do the right thing in fighting and stopping this terror. They cannot afford to wait until after an attack to kill the terrorist. The Israeli army and police must be able to stop an attack before it happens, and harsher consequences for the families of terrorists must be enacted.
Hashem, please protect all of Israel, especially the army and police, who are putting themselves on the line to protect the citizens of Israel. Kol Yisrael areivim zeh la’zeh—we are all responsible for other Jews and we must feel the pain and fear of our brothers and sisters who are in the midst of the violence. Every Jew has at least a family member or friend or a friend’s friend who is there and needs our support.
I fear for my children and grandchildren who have to go to school and to work, shop and play, and travel by bus and train. I heard that most of the yeshivos and seminaries are on lockdown. My grandson bought pepper spray and many people are arming themselves. Everyone must be aware of their surroundings, be aware of who is walking behind them and towards them, and pray that all who leave their houses in the morning return home safely in the afternoon.
May we all dwell protected and safe in the sukkah of Hashem, and may we all be blessed with a gut, gezunt, and safe year!
Past Events
Rabbi Tzvi Flaum addresses student body of Shevach High School. In preparation for the Yamim Nora’im, the faculty and students of Shevach High School were addressed by Rabbi Tzvi Flaum, the mashgiach ruchani of Lander College for Women, posek for Hatzalah of Far Rockaway and the Five Towns, and rosh yeshiva of Yeshivas Shaarei Tzion-Rochel Miriam.
Rabbi Flaum began his address with the halachah that women are obligated to recite birchos haTorah. By reciting these berachos, not only are we asking Hashem for permission to learn Torah, but also to assist us in applying the Torah values to our lives.
He then pointed out that there is a Gemara in Nedarim that states the reason Hashem brought about the destruction of the Beis HaMikdash was that birchos haTorah were not recited. However, we know that the destruction of the Beis HaMikdash occurred because we committed the three cardinal sins: murder, idolatry, and adultery. Is it possible that Chazal were equating the lack of recitation of birchos haTorah with the three cardinal sins?
Rabbi Flaum passionately explained that the Torah is a Divine power source. It has the ability to sanctify us, to shield us from obstacles, and to foster a relationship with Hashem. There is one caveat: If we learn Torah for Torah’s sake then it will protect us, but if we learn Torah as an intellectual pursuit, or view it simply as a cultural gift, then it will not shield us from corruption, causing us to sin.
Rabbi Flaum charged the faculty and students alike with the responsibility of keeping the Torah as our spiritual barometer, and asked us, “Do you think like a Jew? Do you act like a Jew? And do you internalize the Torah?” If one can answer these questions in the affirmative, then she is mekadesh Shem Shamayim, which is our purpose in life. When one recites birchos haTorah, it is not to give license to learn Torah as an intellectual pursuit, but rather to internalize and integrate Torah into our daily lives. The best way to be mekadesh Shem Shamayim is by living as a Torah Jew. This will ultimately lead to the rebuilding of the third Beis HaMikdash, speedily in our days.
The message was a powerful one, leaving the girls and faculty with a sense of purpose and focus as they entered the yemei ha’din.
Upcoming Events
Ribbon-cutting ceremony for the Queens Jewish Link. Sunday, October 18, 11:00 a.m.–1:00 p.m. at their new office: 68-68 Main Street in Kew Gardens Hills. Ceremony to be attended by rabbis, community leaders, and elected officials.
Lecture at the Kew Gardens Hills Civic Association: “Your Sidewalk, but Whose Responsibility?” Tuesday, October 27, 7:45 p.m. at Young Israel of Kew Gardens Hills, 70-11 150th Street. Learn your duties and obligations as a homeowner regarding sidewalk damage, repair, and maintenance. What is NYC responsible for? How do you file and claim? Guest speaker: Richard Gippetti, borough planner, Queens Borough Commissioner’s Office Dept. of Transportation. Presentation followed by Q &A session.
Chazaq Events:
Sunday, October 18 at 8:00 p.m. Sushi followed by lecture by David Lieberman, Ph.D., speaking at Beth Gavriel Center, 66-35 108th Street, Forest Hills. For information, call 718-285-9132.
Monday, October 19 at 7:30 p.m. A special evening of spirituality through music with Yosef Karduner at the Young Israel of KGH. Suggested donation: $10. For information, call 718-285-9132.
Wednesday, October 21 at 8:00 p.m. Sushi and refreshments followed by Chevi Garfinkel speaking on “How to Genuinely Be Happy for Others.” Free admission; women only. Beth Gavriel Center, 66-35 108th St., Forest Hills NY 11375. For more info call 646-541-6833, e-mail Info@Chazaq.org, or visit www.chazaq.org. v
Chanita Teitz is a real-estate broker at Astor Brokerage in Kew Gardens Hills, serving the entire Queens vicinity. For all your real-estate needs, call her at 718-263-4500 or e-mail chanita@astorbrokerage.com.